Make sure the room is warm before you begin the massage as you don’t want the receiver to feel chilly as his/her body temperature drops (women’s tend to drop quicker than men’s). It cannot be emphasized enough, warmth and a good sensual massage goes hand in hand. Warm towels in the dryer and then have your lover take his or her clothes off and lie face down. Now drape the warm towel over your lover’s behind.

Heating your massage oil in the microwave is a smart idea or else sit it in a bowl of warm water for a few minutes to bring it to the desired temperature. Just make sure it is tepid or warm, not burn-your-skin hot! Ouch! If the giver is comfortable with the massage, he/she might want to remove their clothes as well. Skin-to-skin contact between the two individuals makes for an even better massaging experience.

Think strategy

Plan your massage moves before you actually lay your hands on the other person. It is considered a good rule of thumb to start with the back, then move to the shoulders, arms, hands, derriere, legs and then feet. Once the person is sufficiently relaxed and enjoying the sensualness of the experience, turn them over and begin with a gentle face and scalp rub, then move down to the front of the legs, the tops of the feet and finally the abdomen, chest and genitals. You can change the order if you like, whatever is comfortable for both parties but don’t forget any body parts. Neglect nothing, as they all need your undivided attention!

To start

In order to start you need approximately a tablespoon of oil poured into your hands and then rubbed together to further warm the oil before you place your hands on the body of your lover. Use enough oil to cover your hands but not so much so that it is dripping all over the place.

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