As you begin to massage keep these key points in mind. First of all, don’t break contact with your lover’s body even to change position or to add more massage oil. Keep a consistent rhythm going as this creates a hypnotic, not to mention, erotic effect. And that is of course what you are aiming for! Also repeat your strokes more than once (in other words go over and over each area, giving it as much TLC as possible). Learn to practice the art of symmetry. In other words, massage one arm then the other, one leg, then the other. Don’t forget any one part all together, even the tiniest area.

Now it’s time to move on to some specific massage moves

Important to keep in mind

Keep your fingers closed together. Do not spread them apart as you massage your partner. And use the entire flat of your hands to stroke. Use the pads of your fingers only to work tight (and hard to reach) spots on the body. Learn to lean into the massage as you do it with your entire body, in order so that as the giver, you don’t grow tired as quickly.

Basic sensual massage moves

To describe a few of the basic sensual massage moves or maneuvers, we look at the full body stroke, hand moves and the derriere. To learn more about how to massage the more intimate and private parts of the body, please refer to the books and website references at the end of this article.

Full body stroke

The full body stroke helps to get the massage off to a sensual start. The giver should place his/her hands on their lover’s hands and with one long firm motion, stroke up the arms, take it across the shoulders, down the back, down the rear end (I like to refer to it as the derriere), the legs and finally down the feet, ending at the toes. Now you are going to do the reverse. Start at the toes and follow what you just did. When it is time to do your lover’s front, repeat this exact stroke on that side.

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